Deception and Relativity

Here you are, shattered to pieces. Wondering to yourself, what the hell has just happened. One moment you were happy and then another, the world went to pieces. Something happened. Something appeared that was not there before. And there were signs along the way, you know.
...Trying to deny people's intentions and assume none exist, attempting to build one's life while the hidden life is teeming under the veneer of every day life...assuming what they say to be true, is only deceiving yourself! People often build a life on top of secret life, to hide their intentions. Regular life gives an opportunity to produce new ideas, create comfort and plenty. The unaware of its cattleship cattle works harder, and without cattle its hard. The ox, the work force, the cow, the watch dog are all needed, you know...In order for cow to become beef it must be harvested, fed, grazed and pleased.
But you have come to believe someone in someone's goodness for no other reason that, well, he appears to lead a normal life. And the person says that everyone is equal and he is kind and charitable. He must be so! Then the man comes out mean, and in fact continues to act mean, at some point quite deliberately he goes at it. You are in distress. You are drinking green tea. You are visiting the massage parlor. What is going on? You see the man open up option that come out at a price of your blood. Why now? Your perception of a normal reality is shattered. And you slowly come to see that the man has a will that does not correspond with the will he presents in the every day life [the "regular"] reality. Slowly, the real reality, the reality he stubbornly and tirelessly pushes, becomes manifest. And reality is far from being an agreable good natured interaction you've had in min and probably, most of all hoped for.
Keep believing that people act sporadically, like some animals. "They just all want cooperation" believes the woman and deceives herself into high heels, skirts (what does it to your freedom of movement) and low pay. "Bitch" "Cow" "Chick" "Honey" "Slut" "Whore" - he really did not mean that. "By they just said it by your ear!" -you say, and she responds: "everyone is sooo different, you really can't make this generalization!" [Argumental fallacy: non-sequiter. The conclusion does not follow from the premises]