You are being abused. Yes, you will say, but he is not hitting me nor is he raising his voice at me. Woman, where have you been that after psychology has been around for so long you still fail to realize how many ways to psychologically torture someone are there? The main source of what a male calls "energy" means, to boyz' club, is doing sadistic things to you and torturing you. When you get upset, they get happy. Your tears, your pain, your sickness, and your irritation are called "energy" by them. You see, when you get upset, you get muddy headed, you can't think clearly and you can't study or progress. This is when the male gains the time on you and progresses. He also enjoys psychological, emotional and spiritual suffering of a woman.
How does he (the male) make you upset?
Why?...
BEWARE OF A POISONOUS ENEMY LURKING IN THE LIGHT
BEWARE OF A DANGEROUS ENEMY LURKING IN THE LIGHT
Everyone agrees that a woman's role is constructed and a constrictin one. Much of what is "expected" of us is neither good for the species, nor is good for individuals. It is, simply and plainly put, venomous to us and to our psyche. But, since there is a societal judgment, the so called "public opinion" that stands on guard with flaming sword, ready to crucify any female who dares to live her destiny and go against the "rules", females do what is actually not good. God forbid it would be a wrong act that they do and still with the advise of a male! If one is a female, one can never be right, one is always only wrong. So, a female learns to be always on the watch out, on the look out and fear to violate some societal prohibition. She becomes neurotic and psychopathic. Male, unfortunately, is not concerned with the well being of the species but is concerned with the well being of his wallet and the precisous self...What is the punishment for that prohibition that a woman breaks?Loosing one's job, loosing the respect, being talked about. Every move a female makes is analyzed under the microscope - this was not sexy, this was not right, this was rude. Such standards as rudeness, sweetness, agreeablness are applied to a woman where they are not applied to a man. Why not? A woman can err in anything, even a breath of air she takes, and a man can only err in some of his actions? Certainly, thusly preoccupied female is unable to progress and evolve further. Men is able to do whatever he pleases and to received all credit and pleasure that he wants.
Society justifies adultery when it comes to a man.
Society justifies his lowly behavior.
Society even justifies him paying less money to a female for the job she does that is equal, and often greater than male's. The result of double standards and a continuous and insistent politics of harassment of the female, is abuse of the female and her bad position, dissagreeble nature of the gender relationships and an unfortunate living conditions for all. This is natural to expect because when a man, who is insignificant, wants to gain power by means that are not proper, he will do it by attacking a female. And since she trusts him and it is hard for her to conceive of anything he does as bad, he can easily get away with all he does for a while, until he establishes the imbalance of powers. And once the system is set up, all else follows. From then on, all he really has to do it to act when she does or says something as if she could be violating one of the social laws. The fear of retribution on the part of the society that comes in the form of a snap judgment, is mighty and powerfully fearful. The man further continues to narrow her sphere of influence by attacking absolutely neutral behaviors on her part as the bad ones. From making her a non-threat, he makes her into a pathetic supplicant. It is irrelevant is she is right or wrong, because all that counts is that SOMEONE, ANYONE has judged her behavior to be wrong. Since a woman has been given less wieght in society, she and her word are insignificant and do not count lest she is supported by a male witness or is seconded by someone. And any word said against a female, will be pronounced and counted against her. The woman then is certainly fearful to speak. She becomes closed in. The man further continues to harass her. He intensifies his attack and now he uses a different technique - he makes sharp noises, drops objects, and always does something that is bound to unstabilize her psyche when she is in peace or is calm or is resting. By doing that he makes her psyche neurotic and she comes to believe there is no safe place in the world. She is unable to think or function. She is a complete animal by then, anything can be done to her and said to her. She is helpless because even the very words the male created, and decontructs them at will.
The sadism that is practised, the intentional hurting of human beings for the sake of emotional or psychic pleasure, is what accompanies that hurting. The gain, the pursuit of gain, is accomplished by draining a woman of her life force as one would a water balloon. The justification of man's actions is set up in the system, the excuses like: boys will be boys, he really did not mean that, he is angry, he is a man after all, you are exagerrating and being emotional, are an aid to a main policy that states that a man is always right and a man can do no wrong. The quality of a man arising out of this torturuous relationship will doubtfully be good also. But most importantly, the excuses gallore provide a legalized slavery for any able bodied male. A female is a commodity to be touched, spoken to, abused, harassed, stolen from and manipulated.
People will say - don't allow the abuse. Well, first of all, how not to allow it if there are no weapons to fight with? And the second point is that what's important is not to have the impulse to hurt or to use for own gain. That impulse existing allows all of us to live in a sick society. This society is a society of psychopaths and sociopaths. The point is not to have weapons to protect oneself from abuse. The point is in not living with someone who wants to vampire off of you. What life is that if you know any male wants to drain you? That's not a life for a human.
Man creates fear in a woman by stirring her ancient and abused psyche. He constantly threatenes to inflict violence against her. He will not stop. He justifies that with future gain he will make.
Improper spiritual entry will never be erased.
The beginning that requires blood and a conscious and fully self-aware and aware of its doing, vice breeding, in no beginning. What can possibly justifies a killing and draining of innocent young women?
A man steals. He steals her time, her energy, her life force, her energy, her life, her youth, her strength.
Patriarchy teaches boys to speak to any woman as if she has no history, no existence but outside the immediate moment where some boy catches her in, no personality and no life. Man has no desire to know a woman is alive and human. He wants to believe she is a resource and a arising out of the black hole. American male, uneducated and stupid, stupified by cheap availability of all this magick mambo-jumbo feels himself entitled to woman's life.
No one stops him.
No one protects. No one says don't kill these innocent people by thousands each day. How come when a woman speaks of abuse, she is deconstructed? Are abuses I have listed before and now so miniscule, so irrelevant and so non-existant that they could be rationalized away? Is the blood of women less precious than the blood of those who have died in war on Iraq? Is our struggle for decent living not as relevant as a struggle of Americans during Revolution against England?
