Oh My God: It's a "STRAIGHT" relationship or why is inter-gender relationship surrounded with so much mystery and prejudice?

Why is it that the biggest fear there is, is but of the "girls" and their mysterious "cooties"? Not having grown up in this country, and being a dick-male, I will be perhaps forgiven for mispelling the word, if I did. However, not bothering to check it via google engine is what you should not overlook. Am I lazy? Iam fighting it. I am mostly exhausted, hungry and tired. This is not an excuse and I am fighting to teach myself that. So, bear with me for now.
In any case, girls. And boys. And the "mystery" of the intergender relationship. Why? I am obsessed with the "why" of things. Why? Why this way and not other? Why comply? Why agree? Why, why, why? Life to me is secondary, and the answer to my "why's" is primary. I live in my "why's" let us say. So, being a person highly interested in the source of origins and the answers to mysteries, I set out to explore gender relationship and genders, and their history. I write on the subject, paint it, draw it, talk it, breath it, fuck with it and live it. That's all.
In England until recently, I heard, boys in boarding school would engage in sexual intercouse with one another, then stop when the time came to...look for wife. In Africa, one of the main AIDS providers is a man who has sex with another man but yet does not classify himself as "homosexual". When the researchers conducted a survey, they found that these men would not refer to themselves as "homosexuals" but would admit to having sex with other men. They consider themselves...absolutely straight! Many boys in college are "gay until the graduation" - and then they date women. So here it is, the male to male sexual activity, denied, overlooked or simply not acknowledged often, across the continents. This amounts to the denial of a nature of the interaction, and the correspondent disease that accompanies it: AIDS. Denial of engagement will not undo the disease if it already exists, but only help to spread it more widely. Does homosexual activity end with USA, Africa or England? No, it spreads to Islamic world as well.
In Musilm Oman, good and faithful muslims keep a handful of effeminate, cohled and draped boys and men, called "Xaniths"who perform various sexual functions for these men. In India, similar function is performed by hijras. In India, transexuality is acknowledged and embeded into every day life, and hijras are highly ritualized people. But mainly, a male having sex with other male all the while subjecting a woman to a series of strenuous and painful restrictions on her sexuality, in not rare. even today, in the modern day USA, in our own LGBT center on the 13th street. Personally, and even before I started to express my view, just for being female, I was subjected to mockings, insinuations, waves of hate and an outright almost physical violence by ...gay men. This was not a singular incident, but a pattern I experienced in the center, something that made me not want to attend it, in spite of my membership, for many months. One time the security had to be called in because some guy was cursing me, spitting at me and calling me names including "bitch, slut and whore." The record of the incident exists in the annals of the center. I would think that being a female among gay men would not amount to a crime, beign a human being who is on top of that queer, trans, one of the people os to say should be something that would protect me against being harassed on the point of being female, but no - women at the center know their place and dare not squeak. This is what I have observed. Gay men have walked right through me, pushed me over, said nasty comments to me, and all this was done with a smile, in the full daylight, and many people, including women, saw it. No one stood to protect me. No one said as much as a word to these people who were attacking me, my sexuality and my gender. Why? Why? The amount of psychological abuse that women receive from men I have recorded and daily take steps to protect myself, but men are ingenuous, and daily invent the new ways to harass women. Why? Why is it done and why is it tolerated and even excused? Why is the excuse "boys will be boys" allowed? Why are hate crimes against women are perpetuated? Why? But this chapeter is not about modern day situation, it is about a pattern in general. The pattern of abuse of one genderm by another. The denial that accompanies it. The outright violence. The lies. The pretending. The stealing from one gender, by another, continuously, through the generations, as a matter of course.
So, men have sex with other men, granting alternative status to these men, the status that is based on imitation by men of women, all the while subjecting the originators, the women, whom they are copying to brutal physical (no voting rights, purdah, funeral rights of Indian widow, bound feet of Chinese women, lack of any human status among Japanese females and American woman complete and utter subservience to the fashion industry, ready? - lead by gay men. Do you think make up, skirts, shaving, starvation, lack of fluidity in your image, mental narrowness and constant psychological harassment are good for women? I think not. Ask the psychologists, though, what such treatment does to human body and psyche), mental (American women are "free", free to put tons of make up on their faces, pluck out their hair, and dye it on other places strange and unnatural colors, constantly visit plastic surgery salons and submit to the glass ceiling, Muslim women are free to love being at home, barefoot pregnant, attached to the stove and bedroom, Indian women are free to love having their husband ans their families own them and live in daily fear of husbands death for it would spell death on fire for them) and psychological (what did you say? - Oh My God! you must be anti-gay, anti-Muslim, anti-Indian, anti- . No, I am not "anti" anything, the evils I outline are done not by me, but by men, and they are done by men against women. So, I am not anti anything, it is simply that I am not anti-myself and will not forget the horrible tortures that my female kind and me personally have endured in the hands of men) tortures. There are many, many more. Go back and read my earlier chapters, read Mary Daly's "Gyn/Ecology" read Betty Friedan's "Feminine Mystique". Read about the struggle of the suffraggetes and the struggle over the Equal Rights Amendment. The struggle to keep abortion legal, the NOW, the African "circumsion". Somehow, for a woman to observe inhumane treatment either of herself of her sisters is somehow...unpatriotic. Somehow, when a woman objects to bound feet, drowning or being burnt alive or being dressed up and made up like a doll, she somehow violates somebody's rights: gay, black, Muslim, African, American economy, etc. Why is that? Logically thinking, apparently these groups have built their existence on her very body and essence, and now that she actually objects to being a walking carpet, the groups whip her back into submission byt screaming "murder". She, apparently, must overlook the facts, overlook her own experience and all for the sake of maintaining an illusion of these groups being humane, kind and good. They are neither.
They are vampiric, murderous, usurery, cannibalistic and much more.
Let the facts speak, because if the fact makes you look bad, it is not the one who observes your contradiction who is bad, but you who create it. And "racism, nationalism and homophobia" are terms to describe an unreasonable behavior. Often behavior behind women oppresion is reasonable. The highly important criteria that something has to meet in order for it to be unreasonable is not met by the behavior outlined above; it is highly organized, thought out and planned and patterned violation of human rights and rights of a being of a woman, and observing the facts that bespeak murder, oppression and pain to some group is not way shape or form a prejudice against it. If you want to tell me that observing yourself being mistreated is being prejudiced, then your defnition of a "prejudice" has to change. It is common sense, preservation and truth. And, if a group cannot but exist vampirically, feeding off another, pardon but do you truly expect the victim to lay back down and open her veins for them, so that her blood flows? Hell no. A woman is not your food, and she should not remain so.
So, men sleep with other men while pretending they are women, yet surround a real woman with tons of written and unwriten restrictions and regulations. They punish her severely for being her own person. Why? They do not permit the natural development of a woman as is due to her and they do not love her.
They treat her as if the was the lowest of the low, and the roles she is allocated are a: breeder, cooker and cleaner.
She is also a blow up doll.
She is a manequin to be dressed up and turned around for show.
She is not an equal.
She is not a partner.
She is there to be used as a training doll, to play off her, to imitate her, to feed of her, to try various techniques on her. She is a training ground. She is a non-human. She is a half-human. She is not a human being. She is not a Homo Sapiens. She is not even a Homo Spaniels for a man treats his dog better than "his" woman. How can a woman be "his"? How can he own a human being, sell her or make deals with her with her father or brother, or previsous owner? How is this overlooked? Why?
A woman has been and today still remains a victim, a sacrifical cow, a walking bleeding victim for her vampirical host of a parasitical entities - the males. "Parasitic" is here used based on the action conducted by the aforementioned group: feeding of, living off and giving nothing but death, aging and disease group: a.k.a. by definition is "parasitic." One must not get scared when someone whips out the whip of "racism, nationalism and prejudice" but must calmly estimate what is being said and from what motivation. A reputation falsely incurred, eventually fades, whereas what you have given up as your position, out of fear, not going to be easily won back. And on top of that, it is simply cowardly.
So, a "straight relationship" - a construct by the way because it is based on two false creatures. In order for that relationshio to be, terrible abuse of a female must take place, she will have to get turned into THAT artificial creature, a.k.a. a "wo(e)-man". Divest her of her cloth, let the hair grow natural on her legs and armpits, let the make up fade off, and she stops existing. A "straight relationship" is scary precisely because it is a relationship with a virtual slave who is created for breeding purposes. It is not a relationship of a mind. It is not a relationship of love - for how can love be possible of people of such an unequal statute? It is not a relationship of a soul to soul or heart to hear. What does a breeding slave know of mind, soul or heart? This knowledge seems to be reserved for the BOYZ CLUB. For something to connect, there must be connectives, common points, this is simple mathematics, and in order for common points to be, there must be common knowledge, common interests, common experiences. What common knowledge and common experiences the two genders possess if they are trained to be "separate but equal"? None or very few. So, there is this "natural attraction"and is that enough? How much can an educated, wise and smart creature- male, fuck? How much will he be satisfied by a visual eye candy? That visual is only one of the five senses, and there is also the mind and the soul and the spirit! And so, the straight relationship is a straight jacket for a male, and almost always a terrible heartache and pain and misery for a woman. And yes, there is a production of children, but behold our world - apparently not good ones. Children that are born out of this relationship of ineqwuality are sick, evil, angry and small minded. And the solution? Some men have done away with us, their sisters and fellow sufferes, people who have shared their journey, the faithful and loyal kind, by turning to one another. And so we are left, alone, abandoned and betrayed. There is no gratitude neither is there help. We are sick and drained, and they are far, far away from their bleeding victims. Patriarchy has ever done this, and never stopped. It is in our genes. It is in our food. It is in our spirits. It is the truth. It exists.
And what could have beed done? Proper nutrition, proper education, proper attitude, removal of artificial and usurpatory gradations, love ,care, healing. Things we have done for you. Ha?..