Unsafe New York:Part Nine B

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Ok, I am back. Sadly. Sadly because every time this blog fills up some more, it means that someone, somewhere, yet again, did or acted in a way to merit this mention.
I have observed that it became almost impossible to engage in any activity without either inciting questions such as: what are you doing it for? This question attempts to pose as "innocent" but it is anything but that. This question is a major reflection on the mind state of the asker: things must be done with a purpose for something else. Something tangible, too. If you are not doing it "for" anything, just for the intrinsic value of itself, then people believe you must be doing someone else's biding. I will explain the latter in a detail and demonstrate how I have concluded that.
First, the "intrinsic value" concept that so many of you have such diffuculties understanding exists. It is practiced. It is loved and it is upheld. Your attempts to flatten out the reality and make it a sickly and controlable grazing field will sadly, fail. Why, oh sad creature, every time I look at the building or "check out the scenery" I must think about buying the building or attacking the ones who own it because they are "ruining the city with all these extra buildings"? Can't I just look to see the artchitectural piece? Maybe I have a memory connected to the similar looking building but a while ago? Perhaps in another country? Must I always think "profit" or have political activism attached to my sleeve? How about: I am an artist. How about: I am an educator. How about: I am feeling it. How about: this looks nice. How about: I am enjoying it.
So, a person doing things. That peson could be doing that thing for a reason, or without. Surely if your force her or him to give a reason he or she has no choice, but in its origination there could be something completely different from what you imagine. Like that person could do that thing not as means to some end but for that thing's intrinsic value and worth. There are things we do for something else. Like shop in the supermarket because we need food. And go to the bar to drink because we like the taste of alcohol or the accompanying socialization process. And we eat because we are hungry. And we buy cheap stuff because we are broke.
So, let's imagine a person with a life and people whose life is in doing things for the sake of something else. The two meet. One time this person who has a life and does not make a life out of an outting to a supermarket, and does not seek reasons to enjoy art, meets a group. And within that group is much talk about helping the planet, and feeding the poor, and helping people to connect and all that good stuff that makes this person who has a life and wants to help, to respond. And so she or he joins the group. And then starts performing the activity of help in accordance to the rules and ways. Suddenly, out of nowhere, somebody comes by and engages that person with nonsense and false excuses. Soon enough, very soon, the engager starts subtly attacking the genuine person. The genuine person naturally responds, and since the attacker is better in attacking, he or she finds a way to continue to harass a person regardless of attempts on the part of the harassed person, to have the harassment stopped. But this is a loosing game for the genuine person. The attacker is better and does things for a reason. The harassed is doing things for intrinsice value and fails to see a ploy. Before you know it, the genuine person looks bad, the attacker looks "good" for "exposing" the "bad guy". All that situation the attacker has created to aggrandize himself. And all this happening within the group that is supposed to be practicing something good or spiritual or activist! Within that group a person who does things they all subscribe to and support somehow gets attacked and questioned for his or her motives! All because people see everything for the sake of something else and are unable to perceive the natural and true behavior. This is how sick people's mentality undermines the very effort the organization is engaged in. How is the attacker like that succeeds in harassing the genuine person and how it is that people overlook it?
A genuine person is a true person. Her or his intent is to perform an activity. To buy an item. To eat the food. To help the cause. She or he separates intrinsic value from substitute value and keeps the boundaries clear. But alongside this person is a person who uses the aforementioned activites, or rather the structure they are in, as a playing field so to say, to play a human drama. He or she does everything wrong. His or her drive is impure, and heart, dark. He or she knows how human psychology works and hopes to gain points for being "strong" or "smart" or resourceful" in a setting that is simple and designed for a completely different goal. So, he or she, by doing a low and bad thing such as attacking a human being who is genuine, gains unfair advantage. What is wrong with that? THE SETTING IS NOT DESIGNED FOR THAT. IT IS NOT A PLAYING FILED BUT A PLACE WHERE PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIVES. IT IS REALITY FOR OTHERS. Many come in there with a relaxed guard and to take advantage of them is to slaugter an innocent population. And so, here are the strategies of this pathetic mongrel:
At first, inflitrate places where good people gather.
Then, find the most genuine good person among them.
Then, engage her or him in a friendly interaction. Allow them to feel comfortable. Make them relax.
Then, suddenly, attack: make fun of the hair, lightly, pick up the potential intention in the phraze or voice (on that more - later), say something that does not make sense. Confuse. Muddy the waters. Make the person feel something is their fault. A genuine person will either get embarrased, upset, ashamed or confused. All of these are EMOTIONS. Emotions make one unreasonable and unreasonble people get caught in the net of wolves. [That is why if we want to develop and evolve further, we must have no wolves around.]
Then, when the other is overwhelmed by a normal human reaction, normal-to-the-situation, the attacker makes a few quick moves. He or she shifts the blame and blames the very reaction of the person on that person! He or she (the attacker) "concludes" something about the person based on that reaction. The trick is to cast that normal reaction into a different light, presenting the originator as bad, dumb or stupid. The new connotaions can be invented along the way because the power of the man and the power of the powerful bad are such as to be allowed, by society, to engage in name calling and making! (All that, of course originates from inherently wrong premise that men are superior and cannot do no wrong, as well as general societal love of blood and willingness to snap judge).
By the time the attacker shifts into an active-attack-mode, the person is so confused and upset, she or he become sad or dysfunctional.
Now, on the background of this the attacker gained points for: calling the
"bad" out, satisfying the blood-lust of the crowd, displaying cowardly prowess, and removing potential protector and defender. Moreover, the raw matter of emotion and pain is what many a wolf-vampire feed off. And the other person slowly perishes. Understand, that when normal human reactions are abused, people react normally. We are mammals and we react emotionally often. And we have to guard ourselves against that, we have to guard ourselves against being human. And this is what dehumanizes us and makes us sick.
Emotions, proper emotions, by the way, are the highest evolutionary development that gives us necessary guiding desire and material to create music, art, sculpture, theatre. Love, hate, friendship, family, human society arise from emotions; ability to walk in the streets and trust we won't get stabbed because we have created the police, who is now watching over us, protecting us from those elements that would have stabbed us and the others. Emotions guide us to our goal, higher goal and emotions properly maintained and in us, are an excellent lithmus paper for many situations. They are of course, insufficient in themselves and must be accompanied by reason and intellect. Therefore, those who hunt our emotions and capture us in the gatherings of peace, are despicable predators who should be removed from society.
But people who are like the attacker affect people in another way as well. Just like a contaminated tip of the drug needle leaving the body leaves, but leaves the disease behind, so so does that leech who feeds off a human situation, leaves eventually the poor victim, but leaves behind its disease. The same way the infected serum is a carrier only, so is the corrupt person, a carrier only. He or she is not a contaminated person, but the contaminated serum, the virus itself. He or she will not be affected by the disease, but is a disease, acting out its purpose, and leaving behind it those who get infected.
There should be severe punishments for people like that, who feed of the young, the innocent, the pure and the good. There are social consequences those who enter the contract with a false mind state, create. By entering the situation of a social contract with the negative intention and with a false mind, they violate the social contract and are in crime against the society in general, and an individual specifically. The outcome is so devastating, that I could only name few immediate results: mistrust on the part of the attacked people, their mental, spiritual, psychological, soul sickness. The resulting impossibility is a continuance of a normal and healthy life. The person's life has been taken away from her or him. These poor people now fear that everything they say, will be analyzed under a microscope and searched for hidden intentions and weak points, people will keep quiet and keep to themselves. Paranoia and false questioning will begin to give rise in their sickened mind: why did he say that? Why did she say that? People begin to listen-in instead of listening to one another. They look at one another's cloth and hair cuts. Waht follows is improper analysis of speaker's personality based on random or irrelevant observations, incomplete or prejudiced and biased data result. Normal human interaction becomes extinct as the infected passes the disease onto the next person. The person will either become infected, turn into a vampire or become a victim. A very strong a good person will be able to offer a cure. As the newly infected struggles to retain its focus, it becomes more and more impossible. What the person was trying to convey cannot be heard behind all that noise. The listener's mind becomes contaminated with a search for faults, and problems.
When the contaminated one leaves, she or he will go through after effects the growing disease will produce: inability to contain the flow of impuslive thoughts when either provoked by images or nothing, paranoid thoughts, suspicions, uncertainty, inability to keep a clear conscious thought. To do that to someone is just so wrong, in so many ways, I can't begin to count.
When we listen-in instead of listening-to and when we look at a person to judge her or him on irrelevant criteria, we do that person a great injustice. Her or his person is violated - his or her privacy is breached. We choose to see what we are not supposed to see and steal from that person their privacy, unfairly using the closeness to spy on. We should take what the person gives us and not take from the person what he or she does not give. Who gives anyone a right to search others minds and hearts? There are settings for that and people trained to do that, this is not an activity for people who have no business of conducting it. This is not a civillian activity. To seek an advantage over someone without merit, based on illegally gained information, through a devious use of psychology, stealing and sneaking in at the cover of the night, Watergate-style? And how about simple human decency, without the big names. And how about respect for a human invention of the place and time and of engagement? And how about who has set you above another, especially, in a democracy?
So eventually people learn not to listen. And not to be heard. And the inticacies of a human nature that evolve through sensitivity, trust, openness, love, friendship, connection (if you think the other will grab info about you and abuse you you will doubtlessly develop no connection, neither will you develop elevation and subtlety)? A word can mean a billion of things. So can a look. So can silence. But the leech runs in into a silence projecting his expectations: aha! you're silent! - must be ashamed of something. Or, must be ashamed of what I said to him. Or even better, must be ashamed because there is a hidden secret.A leech fills the word and a look with such meanings as do not exist in it, and he or she makes the originator's expression shacked and fettered. Look at Asian world: no expression, no creativity, dead zombie like faces. And why? From inhumanity resulting from overuse of psychology and abuse or power, people became like masks!
So, there are many reasons for facial expression,s words and gestures. Among a normal human strata, a certain language is developed. People understand it. When people who were young and innocent and have been vicitmized, like me, for example desire to evolve and go on, it is very hard for the amount of language to be learn and defences to erected, coming from such bottom, is simply huge. I may be all the genius that I am, but cast to the pits of this fiery hell, I am powerless to arise unless there is a ladder or a hand.
Silence has a thousand and one reason for its manifestation. A person may be silent for a thousand and one reasons. The person may be reflecting on some other things that you've phrazed: one cannot just keep going in a conversation, and speak all the time proceeding out of assumptions. But this type of behavior is possible proceeding out of bad intentions.
Here are a few examples of leeche's conversation-style. For example person being leeched off says: I want to see that sight you were talking about. The leech says: you don't believe me? -Assuming that you hate him. Or he says: you have so much free time? The implication here is either: you are a mistrustful person, or, you are not really intersted but simply wating my time.
What?!
First of all if someone says that a first time they meet you, they are simply RUDE. Regardless of their intentions, there are simple no-nos. You don't just blurt out to someone such a familiarity. Also, what is it? What gave you the right to attack, and who gave you the right to say something so obnoxious to my face?
Or the leech may state: you like sights. And the tone and speediness of the response indicate the defensive attitude. The attacked picks this up unconsciously. There is really no connection to that suspicion, and the leech does not really have it but knows that this type of hint at having it in reality will work the other person into a frenzy. The leech is sick and is sadistic. It is mentally deficient as well. But the attacked one does not know it. While the person digs in her or his heart to see what could have caused the leech to speak thusly, the leech uses that moment of confusion to deliver another blow.
Here is another example of a conversation with a leech. You could complement the leech on its bag and get this in return: you would love my roommate. Ok. Wait, WHAT?! Why? What did I say to make you say that? What gave you this refelction on my complex human personality? How dare you go there assuming things about me if I am complying with the proper process of behavior and giving you a compliment, when you are fishing for it and it is appropriate in the situation? And what if I genuinely like the color arrangement on your bag? Can't I be genuine? Or maybe I have a memory connected to something that looks this way? In any case, I act propely, but you - don't. Then the leech goes off having concluded that you are x,y,z - hey, he has stated that you would like his roommate, that means he concluded that his roommate personality and yours, for some unfathomable reason, is the same. Sometimes the leech although does not think this way plays as if it does and then proceeds to act with you out of these assumptions. The leech creates a false reality, enveloping you in its cacoon. There is no arguing with the leech and there is no allowing the leech to cast its cacoon over you, you must expose the leech, squiesh the leech and destroy the leech and its reputation and its maneuvers and its works. Before you become a bad guy, the uneducated guy, the stupid guy and the creepy guy, strike the leech and disengage from its tentcles. Run and take whoever you can with you. Build a fortress. Build a laboratory. Educate, engage propaganda, save the people and save yourself from the leech. It is coming to destroy the human race. The leech thus devolves the level of interraction and promotes ignorance of the population.
The leech reduces human compexity.
The leech makes wrong associations, attacking innocent people and making good into bad and bad into good.
The leech also creates a false cloud over a person: if the other person's true intentions are muddied over with either perceived (incorrectly) or imposed framework of false intentions upon her or his true intentions, then the person looses themselves and their own evolution.
The leech also sees everyone either as a biological male or female. It does not know subtleties. It does not recognize education. It does not recognize evolution. It does not know anything besides the simplest division in nature and he consciously intends to keep it as simple as possible and allow neither the betterment nor the evolution of the human race. People, trapped within the stupid world of false and denied and negated twisted word and thought associations of the same nature, surrounded on the sides by those trained to make them respond to a cue (aha, this association means "good" and this association means "bad"), engaged in conversations with a constant pressure not to give off a "wrong" impression (the impression that cannot arise in a healthy mind anyway) or simply unable to tap into who they are because they've been reduced to having conversation in a wrong format and in a wrong form, these people are you, me, and our friends, family and neighborhs.
Dear leech! Very few people are as primitive as to be all biological male or female all the time. We are an evolved species, our thoughts and beings have tints and hues and shades. We are not black or white.
Besides the leech creating a devolution and devouring human souls, the leech also destroys the beauty of hint and nuanse and of a debate, dialogue and a conversation. A loss of a conversation is a sad fact because a conversation may also be used to widen the boundaries of tolerance. A person who is nice and cultured is bound to be ruled by subtle rules and expectations. On all that leech shits and steps with janitorial boots. The cultured person either is too nice to say anything or too shocked. The leech meanwhile listens to the sound of its own voice resonating in the emptiness of the room while its fellow conversationalist is digesting the horrible shit and insult instead of a normal human interaction. The leech feels good. The leech feels smart. The leech feels powerful. Moreover, it has its cake and eats it too. It appears smart where it isn't, and then thus fattened on falsity, it turns around and sells some bullshit to the shell shocked person of whom it just leeched. Unable to find an inconsistency, a shell shocked person listens and agrees. The leech gained a blood donor and a supporter.
So, besides loosing the art of conversation and communication, besides devolving people though reducing human complexity and actively hindering and preventing the evolution from happening, messing up normal situations and getting people scared to participate in anything, the leech takes the joy of life away. People can't be in the moment! They are compelled to watch themselves in order not to be attacked by the leech and fear to display the natural behavior that has been associated with stupid or bad associations. And then people forget how to enjoy. They may have their minds all screwed up by then and think crazy things about normal situations... They become unable to be in the moment. They become unable to experience. To live. To breathe.
As we know the formula: experience creates thoughts and sensations, those later become recollected, that absorbed back into a person creates a potential for modification of behavior, that further reabsrobed creates a modification of a personality. If there is no novel experience, if everything is patterned out - this look means this, this phraze means that, then there are no new recollections. When there are no new recollections, no new information is being taken in and no modification of behavior that could lead to the modification of a personality can occur. All happens in the realm of the mind. Body is not involved. Soul is not involved. Spirit is not involved. No new things can arise if you already "know" everything.
So one keeps on regurgitating the old and cannot allow the evolution. Each new situation can be a novel experience. You just live. But "you" of the West is quiet different of the "you" of the East. Regadless,one learns new things this way of being in the moment, if not shackled like an Asian female, like a clam, to constantly process. Remember,without a recollection, there is no learning. And recollection is possible with reflection and being outside the moment. One needs to be in the moment to gather new data and material, but one must also be outside the moment to reabsorb and to complete the learning. You need not concern yourself with how you look every instant being concerned with creating the endless impressions. This is a preventor. If you know the rules of behavior and understand what a situation you are going to is, that is sufficient. Be. But the leech won't let you. It likes a loit of false power, and that type of power comes from classifying prejudicedly and biasedly data (people and conversations) and then following up on harassing them with false accusations. Power does not come from a true and real interaction. Also, the leech remains true to its reductionism to the end, the leech has reduced classification to the most simple pattern, biased heavily towards most basic and often wrongly defined as "defining" traits. Leech practices most blatant and obvious prejudice on everyone it meets and evokes discriminations. It's system of classification is so incorrect as to connect person's hair color with her religious affiliation. In leech's world, a person's lack of desire to curse refelcts on him as weak. Person's compliment is an invitaion to personality analysis and smug remark. Person standing doing his thing with tons of space around him, somehow explains to leech why somebody has to come right behind them and manage to put something on their foot. Leech justifies any power moves, and female leech rationalized male's leech evil doing. Female and male can be roles not connected to one's biological gender. But non-leech family knows that these actions are all a way to irritate, provoke, harrass. All intentions of those who love to abuse other indisriminatory.
A last classic example is a leech and you are in a team setting. You are both working. After having put in some good hours, you state "it is hot in here" as a way to start a coversation or share. With a leech. That is before you know that a leech is a leech. The leech, fully aware that you are sharing a human sentiment, instead of responding and talking to you, knowing fully well that you came voluntarily and put in good hours of work, asks you if "you don't want to be here?"
He or she loves to repeat your words back to you -apparently, to "clarify", inapparently, to imbue them with its own meaning and begin its work of feeding. Any opportunity, any, if a feeding opportunty for a leech. Leech only fears superior power. In other words, straw-man argument is not something the leech shys away from. In its mind the leech sees how to make your true intention shine in different armor. It is reflective of your intention with a crooked or broken or concave or convex mirror. This leech person obviously does not know what is the boundary. Her or his own thoughts are seen as a reality, and these thoughts are based on an invalid and irrelevant to the situaion criteria. You are made to suffer by explaining what you have not done and trying constantly to make your point.Perhaps some leeches are not leeches but are shcizophrenics.
The leech makes sure its victims remain uprotected and bleeding: after all, it needs to feed more than once. The leech makes sure that if you have somehow, evolved, the society is forewarned with false reports on you and you will never get accepted and be able to proceed further, to evolve. This way, you remain a feeding ground and cannot forewarn the others. The leech person, the anti-social, the dangerous element is cunningly superb in its cunning. The it also draws your knowledge and strength by provoking you and by forcing you to provide vital information while remaining unseen. Today, officially, they call it "farming."
What can be done to stop it?
Know yourself.
Know what each situation involves.
Know your boundaries.
Know to judge.
Know criteria.
Know right and wrong.
Know bad person when you see one. They do exist. By rationalizing and explaining people's poopoo away you only make yourself in a hindrance: both for yourself and the others.
Do not allow for untrue and fantastic accusations, assumptions and statements. Challenge each and every one or ignore leech and never engage again. Call it upon inconsistencies. They are notorious for that. They also love yanking what you say out of the context using key words and triggers. Remember, this is a creature, and as such should be treated as such. You are not a red carpet to their success.
Find the others.
Protect yourself and protect others.